Saturday, December 27, 2008

soulmates :)

the other day i was reading an article that got me thinking that do soulmates really exist?just how do you know that he/she is the perfect one for you?!

some say its just one look that decides it all and some say its a matter of the time involved.

i personally think that soulmates do exist. maybe its just not one look that takes it all to decide. there has to be more to it. more than the physical attraction, to know who they are underneath.

we all need somebody to spend our lives with, to raise a family. as most of us generally do. but i was surprised to know that a whole lot of couple who are together for like years still think they are not with their soulmates!

who exactly is a soulmate? maybe, somebody who understands you like completely. somebody who understands your needs and respond to them in time. somebody whom you can trust when you just can't trust anyone around you. somebody you know will be there for you know matter what. somebody in whose eyes you can see the passion for yourself. somebody who'll still say whats the matter?! when u try to say u're fine. somebody who'll like you and appreciate you just the way you are.

i personally feel that if you find that somebody, if you are lucky enough to figure out who he is, it dosen't really matter that you get to spend your whole life with him or not. your'e really blessed if you get to. but even if you don't, nothing to be sad about. you would still know there's a true friend out there for you when you need him.

but, now another question has popped in my mind! is it necessary for sombody whom you think of as your soulmate to think in the same way for you? i would like to say no. but doesn't 'soulmate' stand as a mutual term?!

11 comments:

Whitelighter said...

am i?
on a more serious note, soul mate is definitely not a mutual term. your soul mate may have another soul mate. what if the guy is Muslim? their religion permits them multiple wives. so he can have multiple soul mates. can't he?

ananya garg said...

dunno yet
i can agree that your soulmate can have another soulmate but not that you can have multiple.
c'mon...as in its soo hard to find one and u're talking bout many!

Whitelighter said...

treat everyone as a soulmate. that way you spread more love! :)

ananya garg said...

that wont do justice to its actual meaning :)

la kahlfin fan said...

I think you can have more than one soulmate..i really do. I'd say some guy who is more than a 70% match with my personality is my soulmate. And for the sake of my peace of my mind, I really hope there's more than one out there, because otherwise I'm pretty sure I've missed my chance.


And ya, anyone who is stupid enough to decide someone's their soulmate after one look is destined to regret that for the rest of their miserable existence. The 'ek jhalak mein pyaar ho gaya' bullshit is the crappiest theory Bollywood has ever taught us.

ananya garg said...

well..that surely made sense to me and i guess i dont want to miss my chance :)
i have found mine :)

la kahlfin fan said...

good for u...

who is it?

ananya garg said...

u know him :)

la kahlfin fan said...

ya i kinda figured...was just making sure..;)

ananya garg said...

:)

Whitelighter said...

@Ananya & Joy
ahem!!